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My first panic attack came out of nowhere and left me breathless and scared in a bathroom stall – I felt helpless. I’m not exactly sure where my anxiety originates from, but I’ve learned to treat it like a sort of character trait – I’m free-spirited, funny, creative – and anxious. Because I have chronic anxiety and panic attacks, despite taking medication, I had to find a way to deal with anxiety to get my life back. It may sound crazy, but not only have I learned tricks to control my anxiety, I’ve found that dealing with my condition has made me a healthier person.

Anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the world, affecting 284 million people in 2017. What’s more, women are almost twice as likely to be affected as men. Anxiety disorders develop from a complex set of risk factors, including genetics, brain chemistry, personality and life events.

“Anxiety can be a positive trait,” says Megan Schabbing, MD. “Someone who worries about being on time or performing at a high level often excels in various aspects of life, both professionally and personally.” She adds that while anxiety is known to trigger excessive worrying and racing thoughts, both can actually help a person function at a higher level. Dr Schabbing does caution that anxiety should not be a green light to act on grandiose plans – or use it as an excuse for misbehaving. The key is to seek medical treatment first, because – as I discovered – medication and therapy can play a huge role in managing anxiety.

 

Anxiety makes me exercise

Like a lot of people, I find that anxiety makes me feel jumpy and energised. I can deal with this one of two ways: Let my legs shake and mind race while I overthink everything, or I can use that jolt of energy to my advantage. Whether I’m at work, home, or my kid’s soccer practice, there is always a healthy way to channel anxiety. If I’m working, I might grab my water bottle and take the long way to the kitchen to get my steps in. If I’m home, I jump on my exercise bike, take the dog for a long walk, or grab my free weights. Moving eases anxiety and is good for my overall health, keeping me in shape.

“Exercise can combat anxiety because it helps to distract a person and provides an outlet to release stress in a positive way,” says Dr Schabbing. Plus, exercise triggers the release of endorphins, which activate the body’s opiate receptors, causing an analgesic effect.

Anxiety has made me more creative

When my 12-year-old son was much younger, I would ease my anxiety by joining him to build with Lego, colour, or sculpt with Play-Doh. Focusing on those tiny, bright bricks or shading in a cartoon character with a coloured pencil distracted me and calmed me down. These days, I’m not ashamed to say I own adult colouring books and have sat at the kitchen counter during bouts of anxiety with my trusty coloured pencils. I also write, paint with watercolours, and spend time colour coordinating my closet and bookshelves.

“Engaging in a soothing activity, like knitting or colouring is extremely helpful,” says Dr Schabbing. “The repetitive motion, exercised during an art project, engages parts of the cerebral cortex while relaxing the brain’s fear centre.”

Dr Schabbing also recommends journaling or even light housework like doing laundry. “The key is that, when you fill your brain with other activities and thoughts, the anxiety is no longer able to take control of your mind.”

Taming anxiety reminds me of the good things in my life …

Anxiety used to hijack my brain – I would often jump to the worst-case scenario: “My throat feels tight. It’s closing up and I’m going to suffocate!” During a therapy session many years ago, the psychologist proposed an alternative: “What if you thought of something wonderful, instead?” It was a pretty simple thing to do, so I gave it a shot the next time anxiety struck. Instead of convincing myself the world was ending, I thought about a trip I took to Paris when I was in my early 20s. I found myself thinking about cheese, wine, pastries, and the iron-strong Eiffel Tower; that happy memory took over, helping me gain control.

“Thinking about something good and positive when you’re anxious can help to push the irrational thoughts out and replace them with positive and more reality-based ideas, Dr Schabbing says.

Battling anxiety improved my health

For the past 20 years, I’ve been managing my anxiety with medication, talk therapy, creative and physical outlets and natural remedies. Because there is evidence that omega-3 fatty acids may ease anxiety, I incorporate them into my diet. Foods, like tuna, salmon, walnuts and flaxseed keep my diet on track and encourage me to meal plan; I’ve made overnight oats, with a sprinkle of flaxseed a go-to breakfast. I also take proactive measures to omit anxiety in the evenings by using an oil diffuser in my bedroom. According to Michael J. Breus, PhD, AKA The Sleep Doctor, lavender may interact with the neurotransmitter GABA, helping to quiet the brain and nervous system activity, reduce agitation and restlessness, making it an ideal oil to diffuse when I’m feeling restless.

Anxiety taught me to ask for help

One of the best things I did for myself was seeking out professional guidance. Anxiety and panic attacks are real and debilitating – I had to tune out all the well-meaning people saying it was all in my head and that I just needed a glass of wine to relax. Once I told my doctor about my troubles and signed up for sessions with a therapist, I began to gain control. They have been excellent sounding boards and helpful in my treatment. “Managing anxiety by talking to a professional in the field about your feelings can help you to avoid physical and emotional symptoms by providing an unbiased outlet for your stress,” Dr Schabbing says.

Sure, my life isn’t all roses and rainbows, but accepting that my anxiety is a part of who I am as a person has helped me feel less like someone with an anxiety disorder and more like a functioning human who is making litres of lemonade out of life’s lemons.

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Source: RD.com

 

 

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