Didn’t mention your food issue? They’ll still know

Didn’t mention your food issue? They’ll still know
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No matter how uncomfortable you might feel fessing up to a food allergy or a special diet in advance of the dinner party if you don’t, your host will definitely notice you pushing your food around on your plate. At best, your host will feel awkward and at worst, your host will be insulted. And in any case, you’ll go home hungry.

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If dawn is breaking, you’ve overstayed your welcome

If dawn is breaking, you’ve overstayed your welcome
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Well, that should be obvious. But a clear signal that the night is wrapping up is when your host closes the bar, advises Lizzie Post. If you missed that hint, then take note of your host beginning to refer to the evening in the past tense (“Well, that was a wonderful night!”). If your host is clear, but you don’t clear out, that can sour an otherwise awesome evening. Learn modern party etiquette rules if you ever want to invited back.

Brought your wine home with you when you left? Rude

Brought your wine home with you when you left? Rude
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When you bring wine to a dinner party, it’s a gift, not a menu item, according to wine blog Vine Pair. That means you don’t take it home with you when you leave, even if your host didn’t open it during the dinner party. And about that? It’s not rude of the host not to open your wine. It’s perfectly reasonable for your host to have picked out his or her own wine selections to go with the meal he or she planned.

Hand-written thank you note? Big brownie points!

Hand-written thank you note? Big brownie points!
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“Dinner parties are tough on the hosts,” according to Daniel Post Senning, a spokesperson for the Emily Post Institute and co-host of “The Awesome Etiquette Podcast.” “This is your opportunity to make an impression and it’s especially true if the dinner party was in a professional capacity.

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For a return invite, return the favour

For a return invite, return the favour
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If you enjoy being a dinner party guest, then, by all means, return the favour: invite your host over for the next dinner party. Dinner party guests who like being dinner party guests can help ensure future invitations by extending invitations, themselves.

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